I researched the modern 3 pin RFL3 approach, earthing the third unused pin. That looks OK. Any suggestions on type of relay beyond the RFL3 type already mentioned?
I found this information (Word Doc) on this forum by the way.......
http://www.tr-register.co.uk/forums/ind ... her-relay/
Also found this on Fleabay, anyone currently using one?
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/2-Pin-ELECTRO ... 27bef075d9
If it works as advertised I suppose it saves yet another earth on the car

Thoughts?
Cheese? Really? How on earth does it look like a block of cheese?