Postby Hasbeen » 21 Oct 2008 16:43
I found it goes in stages.
First she likes weekend drives in the car, & car club outings.
Then she gets jealous of the car, & resents any time, or money you
spend on it. Using it as a daily driver, & buying her a new car
helps, but not totally. If only they could make moderns loveable, so
she could love hers, most of our problems would be solved.
Next, she can no longer see your car. When she looks at it, all she
can see is a new loungs suite, new carpet, or fridge. This is the
longest stage. If you sell your true love, [your 7], & get a near
new [but not new] modern, she will not be able to see your car at
all, but of course, neither will you.
Finally she sees it as a useful way of getting you out of the way,
avoiding competition for the TV, vidio, or sound system. She now
likes you to go on long drives, the longer the better. Of course,
this depends on your real love, [the car] having survived the lounge
suite stage,
I am told there can be a later stage, which goes back to the
beginning, where she likes the drives, & the club socialising, but
this one depends on there being no grand kids, living nearby to
visit, as it appears, this beats cars & socialising, hands down.
Having been there [twice for gods sake], I don't know why we men
don't wise up, & go straight from one to four, without all the
hassel along the way.
I find it interesting that when I go on a Triumph club run, [big
city club] quite a few cars are one up, & many are crewed by 2
men . When I go on a Beaudesert Restored Auto club run, [small 6,000
people town club] most of the cars have family groups. There is
something about small towns that's good for relationships.
Hasbeen